I’ve Already Had an Abortion and Don’t Want Another One. What Are My Options?

Facing another unexpected pregnancy after already going through an abortion brings up many emotions. You may be having flashbacks to the first pregnancy or your abortion experience.

If you want to make a different choice this time, there are two others: parenting and adoption.

Review all your options in a safe, supportive space by scheduling a free appointment at Anderson Pregnancy Care.

Parenting Support in South Carolina

Parenting is a big responsibility, but it’s also an opportunity to build a lifelong bond with your child. It comes with ups and downs, including the joys of watching them grow and seeing characteristics of yourself in them, as well as the challenges of discipline and increased financial needs.

If you want to parent but feel uncertain about your ability to provide, there are programs that can help. You are not alone, and Anderson Pregnancy Care can help equip you with practical resources like parenting education, baby supplies, and community referrals.

South Carolina also provides programs such as Medicaid for prenatal and delivery care and WIC for nutrition assistance, which can make parenting more manageable. By taking advantage of support, parenting may be more possible than you think.

Placing Your Child for Adoption

If you feel that parenting isn’t right for you at this time, adoption is another path to consider. Adoption involves carrying your pregnancy to term and then placing your child in the care of a qualified family.

As the birth mother, you have control over the adoption process.

You can choose the adoptive family and the level of contact you want through open, semi-open, or closed adoption. Most adoptive families cover medical expenses not paid by insurance, and depending on state law, may be able to assist with living costs during pregnancy.

Adoption can be a bittersweet decision, but it also provides the opportunity to give your child a stable and bright future with a loving family.

Moving Forward with Confidence

Only you can decide which option is right for you. Parenting and adoption both come with unique challenges and rewards, but support is available no matter which path you choose. What matters most is that you make a decision you feel confident about.

At Anderson Pregnancy Care, we’re here to listen, provide information, and walk alongside you.

Schedule your free and confidential appointment today at Anderson Pregnancy Care.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does adoption cost anything?

No, adoption should not cost you anything as the birth mother. The adoptive family usually covers medical expenses related to your pregnancy and delivery, and depending on South Carolina law, may also help with other living costs.

What support is available if I choose to parent?

Along with the resources we provide, you may qualify for programs like South Carolina Medicaid for prenatal care and WIC for food assistance. Many local organizations also offer additional help, such as housing resources.

How do I know which option is right for me?

It’s important to think about your values, goals, and the kind of future you want. Parenting and adoption each come with challenges and rewards, and both are valid choices. Talking through your options with a trusted professional can help you feel more confident in your decision.